Studjuesit thon\u00eb se kan\u00eb zbuluar p\u00ebrgjigjen e k\u00ebsaj pyetje, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe baza e \u00e7do problemi n\u00eb \u00e7ift.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb gjith\u00eb \u00e7iftet q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb mardh\u00ebnie dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb angazhuar n\u00eb t\u00eb, kan\u00eb debate dhe mosmarveshje, ku shumica e tyre burojn\u00eb nga dy faktor\u00eb kryesor\u00eb:<\/p>\n
Sipas studjuesit\u00a0 Keith Sanford, PhD , Professor i Asociuar n\u00eb psikologji dhe neuroshkenc\u00eb, n\u00eb Universitetin\u00a0 e Baylor, shqet\u00ebsimi i par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjenja e k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimit, q\u00eb p\u00ebrfshin\u00eb iden\u00eb se partneri po tregohet i ashp\u00ebr , armiq\u00ebsor, shum\u00eb kontrollues , kritik dhe shum\u00eb i aft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbushur tjetrin me ndjenja faji.<\/p>\n
Shqet\u00ebsimi tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjenja e neglizhenc\u00ebs, q\u00eb p\u00ebrfshin\u00eb ndjesin\u00eb se partneri nuk po jep kontributin e duhur n\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimin e mardh\u00ebnies, dhe nuk po e tregon investimin dhe p\u00ebrkushtimin e tij n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje.<\/p>\n
Sanford zhvilloi nj\u00eb pyet\u00ebsor\u00eb \u201cInventari i problemeve themelore t\u00eb \u00e7ifteve \u201c p\u00ebr t\u00eb matur nivelin e k\u00ebtyre dy shqet\u00ebsimeve.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb studimin e par\u00eb 1,224 individ\u00ebve t\u00eb martuar ju k\u00ebrkua t\u00eb kujtonin nj\u00eb mosmarveshje specifike dhe t\u00eb rendisnin 57 fjal\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruanin ata dhe partner\u00ebt e tyre gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj mosmarveshje.<\/p>\n
Shumica e renditjeve kishte k\u00ebt\u00eb paraqitje: neglizhenc\u00eb, I harruar, mbikqyrje e ekzagjeruar, I pad\u00ebshiruar, I refuzuar, I paduksh\u00ebm, mosp\u00ebrkrahje. T\u00eb tjera p\u00ebrshkrime ishin: jo i dashur, I pakujdessh\u00ebm, paragjykues, jo tolerant, mosmir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb studimin e dyt\u00eb, 2315 individ\u00ebve t\u00eb martuar\u00a0 ju k\u00ebrkua t\u00eb b\u00ebnin gjithashtu nj\u00eb renditje t\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs se si jan\u00eb ndjer\u00eb dhe sjell\u00eb gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb debate specifik, por\u00a0 duke p\u00ebrdorur nj\u00eb version m\u00eb t\u00eb reduktuar t\u00eb pyet\u00ebsorit original, dhe nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr renditjen e emocioneve.<\/p>\n
Sanford thot\u00eb se nj\u00eb vler\u00ebsim i k\u00ebtyre shqet\u00ebsimeve themelore mund t\u00eb na ofroj\u00eb informacione ky\u00e7 mbi m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si nj\u00eb person i sheh konfliktet.<\/p>\n
Ai v\u00eb re se shqet\u00ebsimi dhe ndjesia e neglizhenc\u00ebs mund t\u00eb zgjidhet m\u00eb s\u00eb miri kur nj\u00ebri partner i k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb falur partnerit tjet\u00ebr dhe ky i fundit\u00a0 merr vendimin t\u00eb fal.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb rastin e ndjesis\u00eb s\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimit, personat jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar t\u00eb shohin ndryshime te partneri se sa t\u00eb presin nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb p\u00ebr falje prej tij. Ata duan t\u00eb shohin se po trajtohen me respekt, t\u00eb vler\u00ebsohen dhe t\u00eb reduktohen sjelljet e ashpra dhe faj\u00ebsuese.<\/p>\n
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Studjuesit thon\u00eb se kan\u00eb zbuluar p\u00ebrgjigjen e k\u00ebsaj pyetje, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe baza e \u00e7do problemi n\u00eb \u00e7ift. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb \u00e7iftet q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb mardh\u00ebnie dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb angazhuar n\u00eb t\u00eb, kan\u00eb debate dhe mosmarveshje, ku shumica e tyre burojn\u00eb nga dy faktor\u00eb kryesor\u00eb: Sipas studjuesit\u00a0 Keith Sanford, PhD , Professor i Asociuar…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2858,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[76],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2856","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-planifikimi"],"yoast_head":"\n